How To Be Happy

HAPPY is one of the amazingly cute word. Isn't it ?  When we utter this word we always have a positive kind of thought in us. Number of thoughts would start jumping in mind while thinking about Happiness. 

Generally the term happiness is associated with fun, pleasure and love. But it is beyond all this. Actually our definitions and ideas gets narrow lane to walk through the real meaning of happiness. We find our happiness is various manners and through different sources which shows dependability on some event, substance or people. We always need something or someone to make us happy. Doesn't it sound under-rating ourself ?  Why do we always need someone to make us happy ?

Let us learn how to be happy and remain happy with ourself :

~ Be satisfied with who you are and don't judge yourself on what others say.

~ Recall what good you have done for yourself and what good you have done for others.

~ Never compete with other, compete with yourself.

~ Spare time to be with yourself.

~ Do not underestimate yourself.

~ Have good thoughts in mind and good words on tongue.

~ Learn to have a natural smile rather than artificial and forceful one.

~ Make someone laugh by a joke or incidence.

~ Set a goal for yourself but make sure that the goal is set logically.

~ Spare 1 hour of time in a day to the activity you love the most.

~ Focus on emotional stability.

~ Trust yourself and make decisions, never go with the flow. The result will please you more.

~ Make decisions directed by heart and not by mind.

~ Be less calculative and more humble.

~ Don't be over possessive and over passionate for money. It will always give you stress.

~ Donate some money or equivalent to the needy ones.

~ Thank God when you get success.

Try some of the things, you will definitely among the happiest people on the planet.

Don't run after happiness. Let the happiness catch you.

-Kushal

Let Go or Let Them Go

"Let Go" one of the most difficult word in this Universe. The word which everyone knows but no one wants to apply. Why is it so difficult to have a feeling of let go or forgiveness ?  Why can't we forget each other's mistake and move on ?

For others things we don't have time but when it comes to someone's fault, we have ample of time to analyse, criticize and emphasize on their mistakes. Where did that time came from ?  We even don't miss a chance to advertise their mistakes and spread it like a virus. Sometimes I think "Let Go" is too tough to do or is it our ego or a feeling of revenge that we have for each other ?

If we are not even ready to "Let Go" we may have to "Let Them Go" (emotionally far from us). No mistake or misunderstanding in the world is so big that we cannot let go. Be it your personal life, work place or your friends. With the change of time,we all have changed, the entire world has changed and moved on. Then why are we stuck with someone's mistake and torturing and giving stress to our own mind ? We all are physically more stronger than we were in childhood but our mind has not grown much. Our capacities and capabilities have physically improved but mentally we are all under-grown if we cannot forget and forgive. With feeling of ego and attitude of letting others down, we all are turning ourselves to MISTAKE CALCULATORS. Isn't it ?? 

God have not sent us to count mistakes of others, but to move on and achieve something ? It may sound funny but if someone ask us what did you eat in dinner before 3 days ?  It would be tough to recollect what we ate 3 days back. But if we were asked what mistake did your friend made before 3 years that you both are still avoiding each other ? It would take no time to describe the entire story.. This is the state of mind we all possess with ourself. No one of us would deny to this fact. 

Tell me one thing, Suppose if we don't let go, will the incidence or matter would reverse or do we have control over the past that could change ?? Than answer is NO.. Even the most richest man on this planet cannot change what has happened in past. So why to unnecessarily give stress to our mind, heart and body ? There is no fun doing it. And in addition we are loosing someone by having grudges with them.

So what is the solution ?  LET GO or LET THEM GO (far from us emotionally) ??  Tough question ??

Ok then.. Let us make it easy to handle such situations.

Install some below given instruction into your mind today :

1. When you are hurt by someone, ask one thing to yourself   "Does my life end here ?

2. Distance yourself from the situation for a while and engage yourself in some other work.

3. Go for solution rather than destruction. Approach to the person by whom you are hurt and frankly put your point.

4. Focus on your present and plan for future. Leave back what has happened.

5. Forgive them and you will feel relaxed to move on.

I hope this blog would have given you deep insights and would help you to change mindset to succeed in life.

Share this blog to your loved ones.

-Kushal

E-mail From GOD

GOD for all of us is a super natural power whom we worship and demand for our favorable outcomes, whom we shall always trust and remember during our bad times. GOD would be busy getting requests and prayers for favours day in and day out.

Let us see the other side round. Have anyone of us gave a thank you to GOD during the good times or happy hours we get every day ?  Have we ever remembered GOD during the joy we get while we enjoy ??  Have we every remembered GOD while we achieve something or get success ? We feel it is our hard work and talent that we achieved. Right ??  Where is GOD then ? Has he taken any responsibility for our bad times only or does GOD deserve any thank you ?  Give a thought some day..!

Would GOD be frustrated or feeling discouraged with it ?  If yes what he shall do ? A mail or a message to us ? I guess he would prefer to send an E-mail in this technology world.. What would that mail be ? Let us have a look below.

My Dear Follower,

I have something to say and something to share. I am writing this e-mail sparing some time from your prayers and demands. I think the mankind has forgotten some morals and ethics of my creation called EARTH. The mankind has forgot living in the manner I taught.

I remain into your soul to help you and guide you when you introspect, but you never introspect. I want you to hear my voice which comes from your heart, but you never listen to your heart. I want to guide you to the path of peace and love but you are busy producing arms and weapons.

I created land and farms to harvest but you are busy dividing land & creating boundaries and dividing mankind into various countries.

I did not know when my creation EARTH is converted into unit of COUNTRIES.

I created earth to live and love but I find feeling of hate and stress in you.

I created trees to give you shelter & rain but you are using it for your furniture and luxuries and then you cry for rain to come.

I created rivers to serve you water but you have made it a huge garbage bin.

I created natural air for you but you produce pollution in it and prefer Air Conditioner for pure and cold air.

I created brain into your body to make wise decisions , but your use it in making strategies to harm others.

I created animals to perform tough tasks for you but you kill them for your entertainment and fun.

I created birds to fly and symbolize freedom but you shoot them for your fun.

My dear mankind, I am disappointed and striving hard to protect you. I don't want you to pray me day and night or do starvation for me. I just insist you to be human and spread humanity. If you live on the morals I taught you and use my creations in a true manner, then HEAVEN is on the EARTH. Trust me I am within you, don't find me anywhere else.

With lots of  Love
-GOD

I think we should fulfill what GOD wants us to do. What do you say ??

Leave a comment for your views.

-Kushal