Law Of Life

I have a good story for you today. This will help you forever..

Recently I hopped in a Taxi and we took off for the bus station.  We were driving in the right lane when suddenly a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. 


My taxi driver slammed on his brakes, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches!   The driver of the other car whipped his head around and started yelling at us. 

My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy.  And I mean, he was really friendly.  
So I asked, 'Why did you just do that?  This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!' 


This is when my Taxi driver taught me what I now call, 'The Law of the Garbage Truck' 



He explained that many people are like garbage trucks.  They run around full of Garbage, full of frustration, 
full of anger, and full of disappointment.  As their Garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it 
and sometimes they'll dump it on you.  Don't take it personally. 



Just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on.  Don't take their Garbage and spread it to other people at work, at home, or on the streets.  The bottom line is that successful people do not let Garbage Trucks take over their day. 


Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, 
so ... Love the people who treat you right..  Pray for the ones who don't. 
 
Life is Ten percent what you make it and Ninety percent how you take it! 
 
Have a garbage-free day

-Kushal

Let Go or Let Them Go

"Let Go" one of the most difficult word in this Universe. The word which everyone knows but no one wants to apply. Why is it so difficult to have a feeling of let go or forgiveness ?  Why can't we forget each other's mistake and move on ?

For others things we don't have time but when it comes to someone's fault, we have ample of time to analyse, criticize and emphasize on their mistakes. Where did that time came from ?  We even don't miss a chance to advertise their mistakes and spread it like a virus. Sometimes I think "Let Go" is too tough to do or is it our ego or a feeling of revenge that we have for each other ?

If we are not even ready to "Let Go" we may have to "Let Them Go" (emotionally far from us). No mistake or misunderstanding in the world is so big that we cannot let go. Be it your personal life, work place or your friends. With the change of time,we all have changed, the entire world has changed and moved on. Then why are we stuck with someone's mistake and torturing and giving stress to our own mind ? We all are physically more stronger than we were in childhood but our mind has not grown much. Our capacities and capabilities have physically improved but mentally we are all under-grown if we cannot forget and forgive. With feeling of ego and attitude of letting others down, we all are turning ourselves to MISTAKE CALCULATORS. Isn't it ?? 

God have not sent us to count mistakes of others, but to move on and achieve something ? It may sound funny but if someone ask us what did you eat in dinner before 3 days ?  It would be tough to recollect what we ate 3 days back. But if we were asked what mistake did your friend made before 3 years that you both are still avoiding each other ? It would take no time to describe the entire story.. This is the state of mind we all possess with ourself. No one of us would deny to this fact. 

Tell me one thing, Suppose if we don't let go, will the incidence or matter would reverse or do we have control over the past that could change ?? Than answer is NO.. Even the most richest man on this planet cannot change what has happened in past. So why to unnecessarily give stress to our mind, heart and body ? There is no fun doing it. And in addition we are loosing someone by having grudges with them.

So what is the solution ?  LET GO or LET THEM GO (far from us emotionally) ??  Tough question ??

Ok then.. Let us make it easy to handle such situations.

Install some below given instruction into your mind today :

1. When you are hurt by someone, ask one thing to yourself   "Does my life end here ?

2. Distance yourself from the situation for a while and engage yourself in some other work.

3. Go for solution rather than destruction. Approach to the person by whom you are hurt and frankly put your point.

4. Focus on your present and plan for future. Leave back what has happened.

5. Forgive them and you will feel relaxed to move on.

I hope this blog would have given you deep insights and would help you to change mindset to succeed in life.

Share this blog to your loved ones.

-Kushal